I really cant tak about this to anyone, i usually share everything with my mom and sister but i am scared their love and prespective towards my husband would change.

And please be kind towards my husband because other than this issue he is PERFECT. And i am sure he is suffering deep inside as well. Thank you in advace ladies❤️

So, i gave birth to our first baby in 2020 and ever since he was born my husband started to act weird.. i noticed that he gets jealous of our son. Even when i breastfed him, then i started noticing that when i feel down because i am tired of being a mon sometimes(you know the sleepless nights, being left alone at home woth the baby, and sore boobs and all that) he would get pissed at our son who understands nothing.

So he starts squeezing him and kissinghim so hard that our baby would start to cry. I would tell him to kiss him and love him more gently but then he would get mad at me like a little kid would do. As if he got a sibling not a son if you know what i mean. So i couldnt take it any longer seeing how our relationship got hurt and how our baby is crying .. i talked to him on a super cute date that we went out when our baby was 2 months old (my mom babysitted him) so we had a relaxing time and it was only the two of us.

After being alm cute and that i told him "yeah yeah and i can see that you are kinda jealous of our son" And tmhe admitted it that he was and that he needs my help to overcome it. And that its not that he doesnt love him its just mixed emotions. I started helping him overcome it by trying to spend more time with my husband and making them also spend time together (father and son)... baths, playing, sleeping..etc.

He became better and he started getting jealous only every now and then until he was one.. and for the past few months it totally faded away! And i was super happy about it .. atleast thats what i thought.

Today, my husband woke up and me and my son came to the room to cuddle(since we wake uo much early) the my husband tried kissing him but he was kind of tough.

And our son started crying so badly... that my heart broke. Then i tooke him so he can calm down and said "hey baby its fine its dadaa"

Then my husband got mad and went to the tv room, so i took our son and went there after few mins because the toys are there and my son took a toy and went beside his dad to give it to hin, and my husband threw the toy away, i saw my child standing still and being shocked. Then our son came to me crying and pointing at his father, i was so mad that i yelled at my husband and took our son to another room to play together.

I am not speaking to husband at all now and i dont want to until he appologizes from our son and tries to make it up from now on! I just cant deal with this anymore he has to change himself!!

Am i being too much or would this worsen his jealousy towards our son ? I dont want him to hate our son. Please help me!