Little Help on Relationship Please..
So I have been trying everything like for real, I'm all in for hubby all time full filings all responsibilities and supporting him in every situation hell I'm not perfect but I'm no far from it. I clean, cook and lookafter our children too. I make his 3 meals a day along with his coffee and tea ( he works from home 3 day a week). I mean yeah a just got a new baby who's 5 months old but here is the problem now. My husband got no sexual desire ( understood, I'm okay with that) but it sometimes gets way too long like once in two months but we still okay as I get tired of working too, got another job as am maternity leave rn.
The REAL problem is that when I gave him all of myself and he literally like on bed on top of him he just kept pushing himself away from me and joking around like ( thinking of things that turn him off). It was his idea to have it and I wanted blanket which was in Attic and he had to get it (cuz I can't get there and getting cold these days ) so he got it and said deal is off.
I mean wtf and I didn't talk to him after his put himself off, not in morning no text / call from him. And in evening he come back with Krispy Creme doughnut trying to bribe me out it boiled my blood. I told him don't dare to come next to me at all.
Day 2 same, he didn't even ate food I made and look at him he's the one now not talking to me instead of making up to me. I literally feel shattered, I can't go to parents live abroad neither can any friends can help ( they're his friends too.). I know its bad but he should have done something else to come up instead of a sorry and Krispy 🍩. I always forgive him and now treating me like I don't know I'm miserable.
The thing is if I'm not bothering him or mad at him, it doesn't make a difference to him. He be like play his ps games or go to his computer and fix it. I mean it DOES NOT EFFECT HIM AT ALL. HE TREAT ME WITH SILENCE AND ALL. AND I HATE IT BUT I DON'T WANT TO BREAKDOWN THIS MOMENT. I just want your support and I am hell no way going to talk to him normally only when kids. Need something.
EDIT : So day 5, still he's not making any effort of talking to me or any communication, I'm only making it through kids.. I took my wedding ring off now. He didn't even notice that, I removed all our personal photos from our bedroom and he still said nothing. He's not effected.
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