I shouldn’t dislike being pregnant ?

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So I have a son and I’m currently 5 months pregnant, with my first I got really bad morning sickness, I got gallbladder issues,GD and afterwards I lost a lot of my hair… with this pregnancy it seems that I got permanent diabetes which requires me to take medicine and poke myself 4 times a day to check my glucose levels, the morning sickness was even worse this time around, also was mourning the loss of my brother… oh and even tho the morning sickness is “gone” all the food tastes different, very weird anyways I was telling a friend ow much I dislike being pregnant that I love my son and I love this baby but I really don’t have a good time while pregnant… and she was like bashing me for feeling this way? Like I was in the wrong for saying that I had the worse time and she even said that it could be karma for having 2 abortions while I was a teenager… wtf? And she said that the women she knows that had been pregnant said it was a beautiful experience… 1 She’s never been pregnant 2 when we say thing like that we her bashed for saying so… 
I’m just kinda upset at the fact that it feel
Like we’re not allowed to not like being pregnant

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You are absolutely allowed to love your children to death but hate the process of pregnancy.  Some women have easy pregnancies that barely impact their lives and some are hit hard.  That’s great that her friends found it so beautiful, but that’s not everyone’s experience.  I love parts of pregnancy and don’t love other parts.  There’s nothing beautiful about food aversions, constipation, and hemorrhoids.  Don’t let anyone make you feel like your feelings aren’t valid❤️

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It’s fine to hate pregnant. She probably wants to be pregnant and is just upset that you are and not her. I’d just ignore her.

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First of all whoever told you that the pain you have from being pregnant is because of two abortions you had as a teenager needs to go fuck themselves second of all pregnancy is different for everyone it's not always beautiful and happy its shitty and miserable there's mental and physical changes that women has to endure that last forever it could take years for some women to return back into their "normal" selves you're allowed to complain and you're allowed to hate being pregnant but love having a baby

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Doesn’t sound like a very good friend….

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Pregnancy is rough, it’s hard, it’s uncomfortable. Anyone who shames you for feeling the way you do or tries to shame you for having an abortion isn’t someone you need to listen to.
My husband and I tried to get pregnant for 4 years, I was thrilled when I finally got my BFP. As happy as I was to be having a baby, I was absolutely miserable during the pregnancy. I had awful morning sickness as well, my knee would randomly pop out of place, terrible food aversions, insomnia, it sucked ass. I hated being pregnant, but I love being a mother.

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I had a friend who was in and out of the hospital for 6 months with both her pregnancies. She had a fanny pack pump just so she would eat because she was so sick. She's never had an abortion and there's really no reason she needs bad karma so that's a stupid answer on your friends part. Also, when You're that sick and miserable you're allowed to hate being pregnant. Tell your friend if you can't hate being sick pregnant she can't hate having the flu.

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I had 3 very normal, happy pregnancies and then this last one I hated. I would tell people it was my worst. Doesn’t mean I don’t love the baby.

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Pregnancy is not sunshine and rainbows. It’s okay to not like it. There are some people who love going through pregnancy which is weird to me but that’s their preference. Your friend shouldn’t make you feel bad for hating pregnancy. 
I personally hated being pregnant mostly because of the morning sickness and growing belly that is heavy. Winter to me makes getting through pregnancy better then  in the summer pregnancy definitely sucks cause it’s hot.

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That is not a good friend, and you absolutely shouldn’t feel guilty for hating being pregnant. The symptoms come on strong and it’s uncomfortable, and you’re dealing with a lot at the moment. Your feelings are valid and you deserve to be surrounded by those that support you and don’t judge you.

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Being pregnant sucks ass. It’s not this overly beautiful glowy moment for 9 months. It’s straight hell sometimes 🤷🏽‍♀️. People gloss over the terrible parts and make it out to be something it honestly isn’t. Yes you get a beautiful baby but the symptoms suck. Nausea, vomiting, back pain, boob pain, heartburn, fatigue, hunger, blurry vision, headaches toothaches etc all happen and they suck.
Only thing beautiful is feeling your baby move and having a cute bump like 3%of the time the rest is crap..
That being said sometimes when it’s over you miss it and forget how bad it actually sucked until you are back at square one of another pregnancy

I shouldn’t dislike being pregnant ?

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