How can i win my BabyDaddy back?!

I need to vent… and i need advice on how to get him back.

Long story short.. We were both 18 when we had our daughter.. we dated for a couple months prior to me getting pregnant. We broke up and then had a one night stand that then led to my now 2 almost 3 year old daughter.

He was there for my pregnancy and there when i had her.. he had a couple small time girlfriends after wards (we had been broken up since i got pregnant), and that didn’t bother me too much because i knew they were temporary and they always come back to the baby mom , and i got to sort of decide who he got close to because i didn’t want random girls around our child. And it worked, So it was fine if i got to message them and be involved a little bit. Just to know who they were. I wouldn’t let him visit our daughter if he was focusing too much on his relationships at the time.

But then he got back together with the girl he dated two years before us when they were 16. He always told me she was a bitch and couldn’t stand her, but then gets back together with her?? I learn from the girl he was with at that time right before her that he ended their relationship because she popped back up and contacted him and he jumped on it the moment he could. I felt bad for her but also pretty pissed off about the fact that he clearly lied to me about how he felt about her. Clearly in love with this girl. I didn’t know what she looked like or did for a living but now i just feel downright bad about myself. She’s beautiful, like NOT NORMAL beautiful, and she has a daughter from a past relationship that he’s taking care of too..

She is an influencer and did modeling and apparently sings. As much as i hate her i can see why he’s with her..

Anyway so after i found out about her last year i messaged her and let her know we had a child and that it felt like he was hiding her from me. I found out she already knew about me and our daughter. She was happy to meet me and then dropped the bomb that they were actually engaged and she was pregnant with TWINS.

I was taken back. He was back with her for 3 months and he proposed to her.. of course i stopped letting him visit because i don’t know her and i was deeply hurt over the fact that we were thrown away so easily but he’s back with someone for 3 months and proposes to her ?? Not to mention their pregnancy was PLANNED.

They ended up moving to another state because she found a better job that apparently paid for their move , house etc and her family is there and he tried to arrange out of state visits to where he could fly out here and see her but I’m not doing all that. He shouldn’t have moved period. He flew out here, and tried to see our daughter but i ignored him and made him go back because i feel like there’s no point if he’s in another state regardless of if he flies out here. And she’s definitely not flying out there.

So i ended up blocking them cause i was sick of seeing their stuff. Getting messages from her asking to send our child stuff cause I’m not talking to someone i didn’t have a baby with period , I don’t want to see my child’s dad giving everything i wanted to another woman.. so i took them off all social media … i just don’t understand why it was her and not me.. you’d think having a baby would make someone want to work it out. Apparently not.

I found out recently that there is a set wedding date. They’ve been engaged for almost 2 years now and they posted the date and they HAD ANOTHER BABY this month. He posted on Mother’s Day that she was the best thing to ever happen to him apart from his “kids” and that he was always in love with her and that he rebounded with everyone else he dated after her. So basically called me a rebound indirectly, Now they are telling me they are going to take me to court to get custody just cause i won’t let him come see our daughter .. there ain’t no way I’m letting another woman play mommy to my child i don’t care if she has my child’s siblings or not. She’s not her mom.

The only thing that satisfies me about this all is that her man (my baby daddy) is paying me $700 a month in child support + insurance for our daughter. So i know she is probably real mad about that.

I imagine us with our little family and this girl came in and destroyed that for us..