Am I wrong for not letting/wanting him to do this?

My bf is going to a strip club with his mom and sister of all people. Tbh I don’t care I told him have fun and to enjoy himself but there will be no lap dances. He immediately got butthurt and said it was a right of passage as a man and that I’ll be taking something from him pretty much. I told him I’m not comfortable with him paying money to have naked women dancing ON him but I’m fine with him paying naked women to dance FOR him, and I don’t see why there should even be an issue on this. He’s still butthurt and is saying he’s not going but ngl my feelings are kinda hurt that the ONLY way this man would go to a strip club is for lap dances. But then again I’m not a guy and I don’t understand the want for all that so I’m not sure if I’m being unreasonable. I said tho at the end that I set my boundary and he knows what’s right and wrong in that situation.