Um….what?!

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I’ve been talking to this guy (24) for two days and he already wants to be my boyfriend. That screams red flag to me and it made me lose interest. Does anyone think l’m overthinking it or anything? I don’t even want to get to know him anymore.

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My husband told me on our 3rd date that I was going to be his wife. It scared me a little...but here we are 12 years later lol. But he didnt push me into anything. Rushing you can be a sign of control.

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For me personally, things that happen fast tend to end fast, however if you are somebody who wants a relationship, and that is your goal, not hooking up or friends with benefits etc., my previous partner, I told him I was not a hook up girl or friends with benefits etc. im a relationship girl, and he said OK we’re in a relationship then, he wanted to be with me, he liked me for a long time, I didn’t know who he was, apparently, I knew him from passing, but I never really paid much attention. He was a complete stranger to me, it took me a month and a half of getting to know him to kiss him, another month and a half to have sex, so three months he waited. Which is not the norm for me. My current partner I actually knew him 20 years, and things happened immediately once we actually went there.. Been together for a year and a half. But at the same token, I met a man one night at the casino, he seemed cool, I told him I had a 30 minute drive home￼. Meanwhile I’m driving and my phone kept lighting up, by the time I got home I had 30 text messages where are you, why aren’t you answering me, hello, are you there, red flag, didn’t last more than two or three days. I had to block him.

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Depends. My SO told me "I'm going to marry you one day" right after our first kiss which was before we were even dating. It took me off guard but we are still together 2 1/2 years later with 3 kids (2 of which he is the father of), we just bought a house, ect. We aren't married but we are establishing other things like a solid home and my career first. But he has not been controlling or pushy or anything during our entire relationship so it's not necessarily an indication of that. However if it makes you uncomfortable then you need to stick with your feelings and make the decision that is best for you. 
I've also experienced a guy saying things like that and it not ending up going great so it entirely depends on the situation, people, relationship, ect.

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No, you’re not overthinking.

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It was for me, we rushed it and it didn’t work out

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I’ve been there and I really liked the guy but I thought it was too fast. I panicked and told him I basically couldn’t get in a relationship and then he still kept contacted with me but more scattered and a bit distant and over time I got SUPER ATTACHED. We still talk. I’m not saying this is gonna be your case, just make sure that whatever you decide you STICK WITH IT, unlike I did. If you dont wanna talk to him more, say it, and stay away. Don’t go back and forth

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Some people just know, that would be a pass for me.

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