Pregnant with #2

Hi all,

Just found out that i am pregnant with baby number 2. Very much unplanned, same father for my 4 year old. We aren’t together we broke up in 2019 at the time we were very toxic for each other there was a lot of emotional abuse. He’s there for our daughter takes her every weekend, he’s grown a lot. taken steps like going to anger management. we just starting getting close within the last couple of months. I found out i was pregnant Monday, i told him.. he said he’s not ready for a second. He says we don’t have a foundation… whatever that means….idk i feel so connected to this baby already, each time i think about having an abortion i get so emotional. I think could this be my son? My daughter has been asking me for a sibling for months now. At this point honestly just don’t know what to do. any advice?