Alpha/beta male

I really don’t understand why that’s so important for guys to be an “alpha”. When they call themselves that my first thought is always: “better stay away from that dude I might get hate crime-d.”

And by slang definition beta means not assertive and/or doesn’t take initiative. I know someone who fits that perfectly but the only thing he’s assertive about is being the alpha male(gotta include “the” as well). Like you haven’t asked anyone out, always been asked out, never picked a date location that wasn’t each others houses, and maintain a distance from your gf around other people so far you left respectful territory. You haven’t interrupted a single person in your life. Never raised your voice unless it’s from the safety of screaming through glass or at an animal. You’re not an alpha, dude, just a delusional idiot who probably has issues with pent up rage. Go to therapy. Or a rage room. Possibly take up a sport where you can hit things. Maybe all three. And definitely wash your ass because even satans left nip knows you’re too homophobic to even think about touching your own hole under any circumstance.