Ex’s pictures? But we have a kid..

Question

Do I keep them? Delete them? Kinda don’t wanna delete them cause we do have a child and might want them someday. I have only one picture of my parents when they was together. Wish I had more of em. 
However I am in a relationship now. Me and my ex separated since the beginning of October. And me and new bf started dating in January. So it’s still very fresh. 
I haven’t asked him if his opinion or if I should.., me and my sons father was my first real relationship. So I’m new to all of this… kinda..

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Why would you delete them? Of course keep them. They are your memories. And yes, you’ll want to share them with his child. It is sad that people think that when they enter a new relationship that they need to erase their past. It’s not like these are dick pics or something…

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Print certain ones and put them in a box for your child when they get older but delete them off of your devices.

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You never, ever have to delete your past.

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Create an email for your kid and send them as attachments?  Or save them in a private folder labeled To:childs name

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Keep them to the side for your kids. I have my wedding DVD’s and album and everything from my ex husband. They’re kept in a box fir my daughters. I don’t bother with them.. I don’t need too. It’s not like he’s going anywhere 😂😭

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Keep them for your child's sake.

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Keep them for your kid, they don't have to be all over your social media or your house but have them put away somewhere for your child. My son's bio father isn't in the picture at all but we had 1 photo together of him holding my belly while pregnant and I ended up deleting it and I regret it. I wish I kept it to show my son that he was wanted by both of us but his bio father just had personal issues that made him unable to care for him the way he deserves (he is a drug addict and it was an abusive relationship). Your current partner doesn't get a say in the matter, if he's a decent human being he should understand your child deserves to have photos of their parents together.

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Keep them. Even though my parents aren’t together I love seeing their pictures. It’s so meaningful to me. Don’t ever delete beautiful memories because it didn’t work out.

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If he wasn’t the father of your child, I’d say Yes but ur now family because you made a child together so NO. Like you said, these are images ur child will likely want to see when he/she is older. 
Put them away in a hard drive or flash drives so they are safe and out of easy reach. If they aren’t on your phone or computer it’s less likely to bother anyone you are in a relationship with. But if the person cares for your son, they should understand why you kept them.

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Keep.

Ex’s pictures? But we have a kid..

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