Ingrowns are the worst!😩

I exfoliate, I have tried different shaving creams, I’ve used conditioner, coconut oil, I shave the direction of the hair growth, I’ve tried waxing, nair, I’ve literally plucked every fucking hair my mound where it is the main/worse part that gets the ingrowns. I use tend skin. I sometimes don’t do anything after I shave and just let it breathe, I wear cotton underwear. I’ve tried everything and they still come back. I even shave with an electric razor too. And sometimes I don’t even shave for weeks and I still find ingrowns. It’s never ending whyy😭