Toddler is meanest to me!

I have always wanted to be a SAHM but lately I've been understanding more and more why women go back to work!

Ofcourse many go back bc they want or need the money but many go back bc being a SAHM is hard AF and to be honest, its been taking a bigger emotional toll on me than I thought!

My 20mo old seems to enjoy everyone else more than me it feels... I just had another baby 3mo ago so I know some of it is acting out, some could be the terrible twos on the horizon but it sucks when you feel like you give EVERTHING for them and it's not only not reciprocated but it's given back with hits, bites, tantrums, tears, screaming, etc.

I know this is also just parenting...practicing patience etc but I feel like she thinks I'm always the bad guy or something. Ugh, any advice or words of wisdom from other SAHMS?