Baby #4

I just found out I’m pregnant w baby #4, this would be my 2nd child w my second babydaddy. Although he’s always been around to help w any financial burden for my oldest, our child and the 8 month old I think it was a huge mistake that we accidentally got pregnant this time around…we were being cautious using protection & pulling out every time. We are not together, it’s just been an off and on fling. He has a gf and a daughter with her and I’m not sure if he’s telling me the truth but she’s possibly pregnant w their 2nd (even though she was on the nexplanon). I honestly need help in figuring out what to do, who to tell and what would any of you do in this situation. PSA I understand women have hard times getting pregnant, miscarriages or are unable to have a baby at all but I am not trying to offend any of you with this post. Like I previously said we WERE being cautious and I understand that it was wrong what we did in the first place but we both played a part not just me.