My daughter is 14 years old and she has adhd odd and a mood disorder and depression she has alot of grief and trauma from being taken away from me 2 years ago and being in my mother custody until her grandma passing away from Covid! My daughter did CPR on her grandma not realizing that it was too late and grandma was cold to the touch😭💔 !! My daughter is aggressive to me and other people. I just had a c-section and she kicked me in my incision smacked me in my face she Cusses at me. She will break things. Say things like I want you to die or I’m going to kill you in your sleep. She’s in counseling they are working on grief and trauma. So far it’s not working and I just don’t know what else to do. I try one on one time with her it doesn’t work! I try to talk to her and ask her why is she so angry she tells me not to worry about it b and get the f out of her face. She is a really good kid when she wants to be!! She got mad and dumped a new can of formula of her baby brother’s out on the floor so her consequence for that was I buy a can of formula with her snack money. Her counselor agreed with that. When we went shopping the whole time she kept calling her brother dumb and say I always get him what he wants I tried to explain to her he needs formula it’s not a want!! Have any other parents dealing with the same thing or have in the past? I need help I don’t want to give up on her I love her no matter what but I don’t know where else to turn to I have even did want my children services caseworker told me to do which is give her attention and praise her for good behavior and let her know how much I love her!!! She also told her psychiatrist that she wants me to die and after the doctor talked to my daughter it’s because after losing me 2 years ago and then losing her grandma then she is scared that she will lose me again and she is scared of losing someone else so she is pushing everyone away.