Who's in the wrong here?

Right, mother/father in law issues 🙄

I am a family of four. Myself, partner, 2 year old and 3 month old.

We live around 7 minutes in the car from my partners parents house.

They are extremely stubborn but they love their grandchildren.

They won't come to our house to see their grandchildren BUT expect us to go to their house.

7/10 times we say NO. As there is FOUR of us and TWO of them. It's easier for them to come here. It takes ages for us four to get ready. You know how babies and toddlers can be.

Specially my partners father he expect us four to go to his house. If we dont, he doesn't come here!!!

He says "my other son comes to visit and he is a family of four"....

Hold on a minute they have a 5 year old and a 20 month old 🙄 just saying that's a little easier then a 3 month fully dependant baby.

Sorry but I think they should make time to come here too. If we don't go there they don't see our children. My bfs mum occasionally visits but not for long as her husband jumps down her throat. It's all fucked up.

Looking for outside options?