Help idk if husband is cheating

My husband has been working for six months away from home. He travels every week and he’s gone five days per week at least. There’s this lady that he works with that I’ve heard him talk about many times. He’s always talking about how amazing she is and she’s a single mom and she’s such a hard worker and she’s like the most amazing person he’s ever met. I didn’t think anything of it I thought maybe he was just being nice. But now he’s away at a work trip where she lives and he told me that he’s taking someone’s place tonight in a kickball tournament. So I thought oh that’s great that will be fun work event. It turns out it’s not a work event but it’s a half hour away from where he is and he’s driving out there and she had asked him to come play on her team. Should I be worried? It just doesn’t feel right to me. I went kind of quiet on the phone and he got angry at me and I didn’t wanna say anything because I don’t want to just not trust him if it’s nothing. He never does things with other women and I don’t have other male friends. It’s just not part of our relationship so I guess I just I’m not sure what to think. I don’t want to not trust him but I’m older than him and I have health issues and I know he wishes he could be with someone he could be more active with. Please help because I feel like I’m losing my mind and I know things won’t be good between me and my husband if I just bring something up or accuse him. I feel so sad. I’m pregnant and if he cheats it will be my worst nightmare. 🥺

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Briabella - I agree it’s good for him to have outlets. Because I have a chronic illness he does take some of the role of a caretaker in our relationship which makes me feel bad even though he doesn’t make me feel that way. So I’m glad that he feels like he can have some outlets and have fun. This woman is single and my feeling is that she has her eyes on my husband. He might not realize it idk, but I’m not sure this is healthy boundaries. He is quite a talker and I could see how a woman could take that as flirting even if he didn’t intend it. And he’s talked about her so much already that they obviously have had quite a few conversations. Also he was saying about how her ex treated her really badly so obviously she’s talking about her past relationships with him which is quite personal. Makes me feel like they are getting to know each other on a level that isn’t appropriate

Lisa - yeah I think the fact that he reacted like that means that it could be possible he’s cheating but at the least I think he knows he is pushing the boundaries of our relationship and opening a door he probably shouldn’t even if nothing has happened yet. It seemed to be like he already knew he had done something wrong and that may simply mean not respecting the boundary. I hope it doesn’t mean anything more.