Tearing

So today stuff happened w my boyfriend and I wasn’t wet enough, I knew I wasn’t I could feel it, and it did kind of hurt but I was too caught up in the moment so I didn’t say anything.

Ik it was stupid and I should’ve but like I said I was caught up in the moment, I’ve barely seen this man all week yall🤣

But anyway now there’s a tear near my 🐱 area, I forget what it’s called it starts with a P, that’s what kind of tear it is.

I used to tear all the time when we first started doing stuff, so this isn’t new. I just wanted to know if anyone had any advice on the healing process bc I want to make sure nothing gets infected, nothing swells, etc.