stressed out and frustrated..

not sure this is the right group to post this in but anyways, for the last 3 months me and my boyfriend & our daughter have been living with my grandparents as we are trying to get back on our feet.. and the last couple of days we applied to an apartment but got denied.. so my grandpa been saying i should try to get section 8 & put my boyfriend on child support basically “play the system” but i refuse to get any government assistance bc i dont want him to be on child support as he does take care of his daughter, and right now the only one with a job due to me being pregnant again and can’t work (complications).. my other grandma said she’ll put the apartment in her name already we just trying to wait and make sure we have everything covered to move.. it’s just stressing me out & i’ve been having contractions too and i think it’s bc im stressed out about this moving situation…. really just wanted to vent. please no rude comments