Toxic in laws/ family

I just needed a place to talk about this issues

Because I try to let this things not affect me

But honestly is getting to the point where my husband needs to tell them something

So father in law is always asking how much protein my kids are eating each day and everytime he comes he is like obsess on watching what they eat sometimes he is already fighting without even checking etc ..

Even if I wasn’t a nutritionist he doesn’t need to be asking what I’m giving my kids they are my kids and he needs to mind his own business he is older but he has always been that way

The other day my sister in law came and she started doing the exact same thing and went to my husband and started saying that one of my kids is always hungry and he is very skinny.. first of all I go to pediatrician often so I know that my son is not anemic or anything like that and second of all I know he is above the percentile for his weight and height …. The other day my husband ask me to explain to them that the requirements for protein are not the same for a child as an adult

I don’t need to explain myself because if they where really worried they will tell me this upfront but they do this behind my back

I told my husband he needs to set limits and boundaries I really can’t deal with them anymore