Any ideas?

Hey everyone, my DH took his life back in 2016 and I’ve not been in a relationship with anyone since his death. I had sex with a friend of mine and we had multiple baby dances during fertile window and this was memorial weekend. Ever since I’ve been really bloated, irritable, fatigued like no other. Going back to my first pregnancy I didn’t pay attention to the “signs” I did test with my son when I missed the period found out he was on the way. Here’s my temps I’m 10dpo tomorrow i see a Gyno on the 14th for a well woman. Haven’t had one since my husband passed to stay on top of things. My cm with my son made me have a yeast infection for the first 3 months and man I was climbing the walls for relief. I also had to get progesterone suppositories til the 20 week then I could stop cos my son made it after that. I’m not sure what’s happening now….. should I test tomorrow or 3days before AF? Af due on the 15th