If your ex stole money from you, abused you, controlled you, used a family member’s death to guilt you into sex with them, and made you become homeless, would you try to get even?

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My ex did soooo many fucked up things to my children and me. I want to do *something* to get even. I know it’s petty but I’m hurting so bad

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No. Just go live a good life. That’s the best revenge.

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Rebuild yourself, and let karma handle him. Karma's a bitch.

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Grow up and move on. Why "get even "? .Makes you just as bad and toxic .

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I wouldn’t, I would be worried that a person like that would just try to retaliate further and cause a risk to my or my child(ren)s lives. 
As hard as it is to move forward and pack those things away, it’ll be better for your mental state in the long run. Speaking of, this is in no way meant to be snarky, only helpful, if therapy is something you’re open to/can access, it might be helpful to get a hand working through the awful ways you were treated and become a stronger person on the way out!

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I wouldn’t waste my time and energy on them.

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Girl, my ex is currently dating my sister and had shown up to two family funerals with her. He put me and my kids through HELL. I didn’t get even because that makes me as low as he is. Be happy, move on! He’s not worth anymore of your time and energy!

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Nope. In my experience, when you play games on their level they always win; they're an expert at their craft which is why they were able to do what they did to you. Live life by your standards and move on. You're just opening yourself up to more hurt and pain if you fuck around and try and get even with them.

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You really want to waste more of your life on this person? The best thing you can do to "get even" is move on with your life and show him your happiest without him.

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The best revenge is a life well lived

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No, I would stay as far away from them as possible and block them in any way I could from ever having any kind of contact with them.

If your ex stole money from you, abused you, controlled you, used a family member’s death to guilt you into sex with them, and made you become homeless, would you try to get even?

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