Is it just me or him?

My husband and I been together for 8 years now.

He’s fun, outgoing, talkative.

But, he does easily get annoyed. But seems more often with me. At times I wish him and I were friends so I can enjoy him the way how his friends get to enjoy. Always happy.

Or even when we were just friends it was always fun and exciting.

Now, it just seems blah. I feel like I try extra or make sure I don’t say the wrong things we have our good days and bad, but when we have our bad I seen it as pointless.

He always says it’s cause we’re opposite.

We don’t like to do the same things.

He drinks, I don’t.

Am I just a buzz kill?