Bedshare single mom question

So I’m going to be a single mommy and I’m still really against bed sharing with my baby, but my mom swears I will. I hate hearing “just wait” 😭 it’s so annoying to me. Has anyone been a single mom and didn’t bed share? I’m due in august. Im just so scared to bed share and then get her use to it as well, I don’t want that. I’m also scared of the risks. Maybe for naps during the day. Who knows.