tight or loose?

I really want as much opinions on this as possible!!

so after 6-7 months of not dating or having casual sex with anyone I decided to give a guy a chance. all vibes are great, and there’s great chemistry but there’s just one thing that really messes with his head. we were having a conversation where we were being honest and communicating how we felt. he expressed to me that my vagina felt “loose” the first time we had sex. I felt confused as to how he would think that because I know my body. when I consider myself to be involved with someone I see a future with I’m 100% honest and have nothing to hide. so it made me feel a type of way that he believes I had sex with someone recently because my vagina wasn’t tight enough for him. I literally sat there speechless. when we had sex the first time, there was so much foreplay. slow kissing for a long time, a lot of oral sex, and he was licking my anus. so I was READY for sex. I asked him how knowledgeable is he about the woman’s anatomy, and he responded that even after months of me not having sex all while being aroused I should still be tight….

so I just want opinions on what you think about this situation, because I am completely baffled and tbh I feel bad after hearing that