Is this only on TV??

Im really curious if there are men out there that actually get excited when their so is pregnant? My first pregnancy my husband was a nightmare. He was so angry, he threaten to deport me even thou i am a green card holder. He was forcing an abortion and i completely refused. He ended up apologizing, since his reaction was so bad i honestly thought he was just so in shock and out of his mind so i forgave him. Baby came and he acted as if he never didnt want her. Welp second pregnancy came early this year, when i told him he gave me the cold shoulder for 5 days. He didnt say anything and ignored me and our 2 yr old. A week later he came around again and says he is excited. I feel so robbed when i hear a man is happy and excited about the news of pregnancy. Im so resentful now that i have even consider divorce. I dont feel loved. I feel my husband is a liar and he just tolerates being married.