My child hates her crib or sleeping

I’m at a loss. I don’t know what to do. My child has never been able to self soothe. If we lay her down “drowsy but awake” she will scream until she throws up. Every time. She will on occasion sleep through the night but for the most part it’s taking turns every 30 mins to go rock her back to sleep. I know sleep regression is a thing but this is ridiculous. We have tried 5 different sleep sacks, sound machines, essential sleep oils, fan/no fan…. I don’t know what else to do. The second (and I mean literal second) her head hits the mattress she is awake and crying. There are no sleep coaches in my area. I. Need. Help.