I’m not sur what to do with the guy I like.

Hi, long story short I met this guy about two months ago at MC Donald’s on the way back home from a night out (not the best place I know). But from the minute he said hi, we hit it off.

A little back story on me is that I have a type of guy that I am looking for which isn’t common in my age group (I’m turning 20 soon) and am in no rush to get into a relationship. Not trying to be arrogant at all but I do attract male attention however I am known heavily for not caring and whom ever I do give my info to I pretty much block the next day because I ask specific questions and most of the time the guys do not align with what I want.

Any ways, we talked for about 2 weeks but stopped. I had just moved in to my flat and my life when I’d met him was not going okay I was having a lot of family issues and my mental health was very low. He was a piece of fresh air but I knew almost immediately that he had come at the wrong time. Within those two weeks, my abusive father came back into my life, I was figuring out my finances, my job was stressing me out and I was sorting out how to move my belongings into my flat. With all of this happening and me crying to sleep almost every night I was a pretty much unpleasant person to be around. I was trying to keep myself afloat but I was always complaining. Which ended up turning him off. I’m never like this usually.

Currently I’m in a wayyy better spot and it’s been two months since I’ve talked to him but he’s been liking my insta pics lately so I was wondering whether I should hit him up or wait for him to text me (which could never happen). I’m not putting him on a pedestal but he was ticking a lot of boxes.

So any advice would help x

P.s sorry for the essay

UPDATE: so thanks so much for all your advice and after a lot of thought, I texted him. He responded at first but when I asked him if we could have another shot he completely ghosted me and left my text on delivered. I’d be lying if I said it didn’t hurt but it’s been a week and I feel a lot more free and can focus since he’s not on my mind any more.