Is it me? Or is he an ass?

***Editing to add this is all new behavior besides the job comment.

I don’t know if I’m just changing mentally and physically with this pregnancy or if my husband really is being a gross childish jerk. I know you change with pregnancy but he’s doing things that are straight up making me disgusted at him and not wanting to be near him. For instance the other day he was walking around the kitchen with his hand in his pants. I asked him why he was doing that and he went on with the “they’re itchy, my balls stick to my leg” etc. I told him he could do that privately but I swear the next few minutes he was around me all I could smell was balls. I told him go wash his hands bc it was very strong. Last night after dinner my phone died but I was trying to look up something so I asked for his phone. He got mad about it and said “No you’re not running my battery dead.” I told him I was needing a number not to sit there and scroll thru his stuff. He rolled his eyes and threw the phone at me and then stood over my shoulder while I looked up the number I needed. I told him I didn’t know why he was acting so nervous about it and he just got mad at me and said “fuck you” and went inside. Then last night after his shower he was putting cologne on, I’m almost 20 weeks so certain smells are just too strong for me right now, not that they’re nasty just certain smells are stronger to me and some give me a headache now like his cologne and windex. I guess I made a face and he said what? I said oof that’s strong. And went to cover my nose and he started FANNING IT AT ME with this dumb looking smirk on his face. I glared at him and said “I didn’t say you stunk I said that’s strong because I’m pregnant some smells like that will give me a damn headache.” Then he rolled his eyes at me and said “whatever.” This morning his alarm went off (I was already up bc I work too but I take longer to get ready) and he said “I wish they’d fire me so I can stay home.” Like really. That’s an awesome wish seeing as how I’m pregnant and Christmas is coming up. I wouldn’t have taken it so seriously had he not literally gotten fired on purpose his last 5 jobs. God I swear I don’t even like being around him anymore. Tell me I’m not just being nuts? He keeps calling me a psycho and it’s pissing me off.