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Has anyone ever had to deal with seeing their newly ex parter at work? My now ex boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago(of course I still love him) we still work together so obviously I still have to see him but I’m finding it very hard to not burst into tears every time I see him. I’ve been having constant panic attacks and I just don’t know what to do.

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Don’t run. Work with him as usual every day, act like you don’t care even tho inside you feel broken. You can do it, you are stronger than you think ! Be friendly, Smile and Say Hello. He will be very surprised of you acting like this. It will get easier, trust me. Step by step every day and you ll wake up one day feeling like everything passed. Go out, see other people, make yourself busy

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I’m sorry to hear about the break up, babe. Try seeing if your manager can schedule you for different shifts, I worked in a restaurant for years before becoming a SAHM and I definitely had people I couldn’t work with. Unfortunately you have to be the one willing to deal with the schedule modification unless your ex is also on board with it all. My boss was alway pretty good for making it work unless it was a really busy shift that needed all hands on deck, in which case nobody had time to talk anyway. In my experience they would rather have to redo a schedule than deal with tension between 2 people since in the long run it can really drag a team down. If they aren’t willing to work around it and you want to find a new job it’s always an option too but I completely understand not wanting to up and change everything to find a new job. With all of this being said I promise it does get easier. I don’t know what it is but as time passes it will start to hurt less and less to look at your ex. You may always be sad about what could have been but you will heal to a point that you don’t want to break down in tears every time. I know it all feels like a mindf**k right now but you’ve got this, lovely! Life is tough but so are you, just remember that 🥰

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Either talk to a manager about working opposing shifts (you will have to be the one that makes the sacrifice on days and times) or get a new job.

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