Wig wearers help

Everytime I put my wig on I can’t seem to get the bits at my ears tucked away properly, like the hair. I’ll pin it back and gel and it’s totally flat but I can’t get the cap to cover the little wispy bits and they just stick out like sore thumbs. I have very dark hair and you can see the clear difference between the wig n my hair sticking out at the ears on the side of my face. How do I tuck this away better? I can’t seem to get the cap to cover my hair around my ears fully