Hey, everyone!

I am about to tell on myself because I need to tell someone lol.

So, me and my ex (J) dated over a little over 4 years ago and we’ve just recently reconnected.

I had been having dreams about him over the past 2 years, and it confused the hell out of me I mean, they kinda just came out of nowhere. By the way, the dreams were never about us getting back together or anything. It was usually about us talking and be open with each other about the relationship.

We didn’t have the best relationship and I had recently came out as queer so I wasn’t really interested in talking with him.

I also had a 6 month “relationship” in the middle of those 4 years with someone else. Again, I never thought about “J”. I was happy with this other person that I was talking to for about a year.

Fast forward to now, I messaged him because I was tired of having dreams about him. Trying to be open about shit I was holding onto so that I could stop having dreams about him.

He called me and we talked. Now, we’re talking and everything is cool. I’m not interested in getting back with him and I haven’t had a dream about him since.

However, I’m considering being friends with occasional sex (A.K.A. Friends with benefits).

I haven’t had sex in a while and I wanna get a stranger’s input lol.

Tell me, what are your thoughts and opinions on this…

Thank you!