Mama looking for advice
Me and my family have been on a huge emotional journey for over a year. When my son was 13 I walked in on my father molesting him. I was going to wake him up to pee because he started out of nowhere wetting his bed. My mom wanted me to drop the charges and it came out my dad had sexually abused and raped my brother.
We've overcome that as a family and my son is in high school now. He would still wet the bed but it's gone down a lot to maybe a couple nights a week but if something triggers him he will start every night again. He was doing well and only wetting once a week but he was with his dad and his dad told me he wet the entire week he was with him and then wet the entire week here. So two weeks straight. I want to talk to him but sometimes someone told me in here that I honestly took to heart back when I was first talking about it was not to connect all my son's failures (or successes) with his sexual assault. And that sometimes things just happen and because he has a failure doesn't mean I have to automatically connect it to what happened so I make it my goal not to do that. I just want to ask him if something is going on or if he got triggered. But I again also don't want it to seem like I'm connecting. His dad said he's gonna start putting diapers in our son's drawers for him. I'm not planning on putting him back in diapers again quite yet without just trying to see what's causing it and if it's gonna be like this for a while.
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