Husband had sex with me when I was too drunk

Almost three years ago, my husband and I got married. During our reception, I drank quite a bit. I’m very lightweight, so I don’t hold my own liquor well. On our wedding night, I was so incoherent. I barely made it into my pajamas, and didn’t even take off my makeup. When my husband came back to the room, I was already laying in bed nearly asleep. Naturally, he wanted to have sex on our wedding night. Of course I’d want the same, but I was exhausted and drunk. He eventually was on top of me, having sex while I was in and out of consciousness. I could hardly speak for myself. I’ve been angry and frustrated about a lot of thing personally lately, wishing I hadn’t married so young. I was thinking about this memory, and started to realize how weird all of that was. Shouldn’t he have just helped take off my makeup and just let me sleep? Put some water and advil on my bedside?? Instead this is how it went, and I just want some input from others to figure out if this should’ve happened.