My husband left and idk what to do

On December the 3rd 2021 I woke up to my husband gone! On Christmas I got a phone call saying he was fine he left and was with someone else and wanted nothing to do with us.

He took all the money out of the our checking but not our savings so that is how me and my kids was able to survive for awhile. My landlord was the one who told me to sign up for section 8, she told me she don’t normally take it but she would for me. The savings ran out during the summer and we been living off of EBT, section 8 and tanf.

Well I got a call back in November, about the tanf. I was told the view program would be starting again in Jan. I would ether have to do school, job search or Community service. To keep my tanf. I told him I would need help with daycare and he said I could do the daycare program. I asked if I could go ahead and fill out the paperwork for it and call the daycares. But he told me no, I would have to wait till January.

I did that, we decided to put me in job search. I went and filled out paperwork for daycare. He told me once they called me, I could start looking.. my son got really sick, I have a 2 and a 3 year old. My 2 year old is diabetic and he got COVID, and well was hospitalized on January 6, he just go out of the hospital Monday.. so I didn’t really get to look for daycare or a job, in January.. Well I was just told yesterday, that the job search only last for 6 weeks and I need a job by March. Now he never told me it was only for 6 weeks back in January.. Anyways I’ve called and went on a tour to a few daycares today. Well all of them told me they was A curriculum based daycare and they can’t denied special needs kids but most of the time it don’t work out. My oldest son is autistic non verbal. He is delayed, so he more like a early two year old not a almost 4 year old.. He also isn’t potty trained so none can take him.. so I’m shit out of luck.. 😢 I’m scared idk what I’m going to do. I really thought I could do this on my own. I was looking forward to getting a job and getting my life together and maybe making friends and stuff.. now it just looks like we are going to lose everything!!! I can’t help but be mad a my husband, why did he do this to us!!! I trusted him.. I would have never had kids if I knew he would leave.. 😡😢😡😢