Have I done it at the wrong time?? 😥

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Ok so me and my husband have been together for 6 years and he’s literally the love of my life 😍, we have a 4 year old child together and unfortunately he’s now in jail and will be getting released in February 2024, before he was taken to jail we really wanted to plan for another baby….., but here’s where it gets tricky so he’s just been taken to an open prison where he has more freedom and we had our first visit and we managed to have sex 😳 lol am in super fertile at the minute according to this app…… I was wondering how accurate the fertility is on this because if it’s accurate then I may get preggo and I would have the baby before his release date!!! I really want another baby with him and want to spend the rest of my life with him but the thought of knowing that my 2nd child was conceived in prison freaks me out a bit!! Please 🙏 give me honest comments 🙏

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I don’t even understand how this would be a good idea…. Selfish honestly. I grew up with my dad in prison and I HATED it . HATED IT. Really unimaginable that you would willing want to put a kid in that position.

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I would wait so he can be with you through the journey. Keep in mind that he will need time to reintegrate into the free life so maybe having a newborn at home may be too much all at once.

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Does it matter if it’s the wrong time or not… if baby is made in jail so what… bottom line was the baby made between two people who love each other? Then get over it and accept the baby will be before before he’s out of jail 🤷🏽‍♀️ you had sex and baby is a possibility. Not the best timing but he went to jail so…. I’d wait and test in a few weeks to be sure if your pregnant before worrying about it

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I wouldn’t worry about something until you know it’s real or not, don’t cause yourself unnecessary stress. 
And if you aren’t pregnant and the thought of your child being conceived in pregnant freaks you out then you should know for next time to not do it and put yourself in that situation again

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The app can be very very inaccurate. It only bases it off “the average woman.” It’s been very wrong for me many times. You’d need to track with opks and bbt to determine when — or even IF — you’re ovulating.

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First off, I wanted to say that’s a verb strong bond and I’m happy that even in the worst of time you are stinking with your husband. That really shows the true bond between man and wife. Sending love and prayers y’all’s way! 💚🙏🏻😌 I can’t wait to have that type of love someday. The we’re in this till the end type of love. In this generation it’s really hard to find. Secondly, this app is only recently accurate￼ when you have a regular cycle between the 23-35 day national average being 28. So, if it’s a irregular ￼meaning less than 21 on cycle or more than 35 another cycle. It’s less accurate. ￼These apps have difficulties with pinpoint ovulation for those with irregular cycles. I am speaking from personal experience being that I have irregular cycles. I also have been using this app since I was about 14-16 years old. So, it honestly depends. Mind you I have been sexually active since I was 17 years old when I fist consented to doing the deed. That factors in on the app as well. As long as your longing consistently too every time you do the dirty it lefts you know the chances. But, if you still aren’t sure. I recommend taking the first response early results one it gives you results 6 days sooner than your missed period.

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I mean there’s always a chance! If it happens it happens and you sound like you’re pretty excited anyways so I hope it all works out in the end!

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well first off.. he’s literally in prison i’m not too sure why u wanna be w said man or why u even thought that having a baby by him was a good idea… someone women just confused me

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There’s always a chance, however if your periods are pretty accurate and you’re tracking it, it’s pretty spot on. Least was for me last year. Hoping it’s off for me cause I’m 3 weeks postpartum and had sex during my ovulation time via app which hoping that’s not the case.. HOWEVER, although yes the app is free to say whatever you want etc, I’d suggest waiting till your husband is home from jail. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to go through your pregnancy / delivery alone. Plus I’m sure he would want to be there. My best suggestion is to wait just because of that in itself

Have I done it at the wrong time?? 😥

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