Pressure to go back to work

Everyone asks when are you going back to work when are you going to go back to college or work you have to do something with your life.

It's like it's rare to be a stay at home mother and it's rare to have supportive people who understand your choice yes it's nice to work do work but from your free will not from burden. it's difficult when there's feelings like you are stressed because it's something they want you to do now in a rush and it's difficult someone telling you this is what you have to do in your life and you feel these feelings like should I get a job and the guilt and also the shaming like why aren't you working and financially contributing and it's all these extra it's like let me live my life I'm not a puppet let me choose what I want.