How do I say this in a nice way to my partner ?

I’ve come to the point where I hate doing anything for him it pains my souls to move a finger for him .

I would love getting a special Meal for him when he got back from work , I did a bunch of other little stuff that he never seem to realize how much time and effort I took Into doing these type of things .

I started working full time and I still manage to take care of our baby cook, clean and look after our baby.

I stopped working for a year and every time I would bring up him helping out more w the house he would have an excuse like “I be too tired from work “ also I’ve had talk w him about me wanting him to do nice things for me unexpectedly or without me having to ask and he says he has no creativity for that , but recently made a whole video dedicated to his car and one time w his Friends .

His responses to the things that I put effort on + excuses for him mot getting basic things done like I do working or nor + his lack to put effort and do something nice for me is making me push him away and despise doing anything for him . I