Bf will miss meeting my parents because I refuse to baby him any more

My partner and I have been together for almost 3 years. We live in a different country than my parents do and he has never met them so I have planned for us to see them in July. The only issue is my bf has never had a passport. I told him about my plans in early February giving him roughly 5 months to work on getting his passport. A process that is fairly easy and I have been through before so I could help him out.

Now I knew it would be stressful and confusing to try and read through our countries website for obtaining one so I went out of my way to create a very very dumbed down version IN STEPS to what he has to do to get it. Links included so that there’s no way he could say he doesn’t know what to do.

I have reminded him probably 10-15 times that I can recall since February to take a look at the document and start filling it out. I even initially was going to fill as much of it out for him as possible but he got super pissed and told me he’d do it. So I didn’t fill it out and just continued to remind him. Now that we are halfway through April, I have been refusing to remind him. I will talk about the plans I have for us when we travel and I will talk about things but I won’t mention anything about his passport or what he needs to do because if it’s important enough to him, then in my opinion, he’ll get his shit together and do it. He hasn’t worked on it at all and he’s got roughly 70 days to get it sorted and apply for it. And passports here take 6-8 weeks to come in. He’s wasting time and if he decides to do it last minute, I will not feel sorry for him and he just simply won’t be coming back home with me.

He will probably be mad and upset with me but I am his girlfriend, not his mother. If he can’t do something that simple for himself when I have literally laid it out for him as if I’m telling a 5 year old how to do it, then that’s entirely on him and I refuse to take the blame for it. I will enjoy my time at home with or without him. But my parents will know exactly the kind of boy he is if he fucks this up. 🤷‍♀️

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