Am I wrong…?

Ever since I’ve had my baby back in January I have very little sex drive..

My partner and I haven’t gotten along much since she’s been born mostly because I feel like I’m doing everything alone.

I breast feed and that alone can drain me some days, also our baby is teething and will keep me up late at night sometimes. He has never had to deal with her at night, I let him sleep and I handle everything every night because he works and I am a stay at home mom.

He throws in my face all the time that he “works all day” and that I need to initiate sex more because he should be able to have sex when he wants since he’s paying all the bills.

When he has a day off he stays up all night the night before and then spends ALL day in the bed. And this is EVERY day that he has off.

I get upset by this because I never get a break from the baby and he throws in my face the sex issue and justifies him being in the bed because he’s ‘so tired from work’. I argue because he stays up till 6am by himself rather than going to bed at a reasonable time and spending time with his family on his day off.

Am I in the wrong or are my feelings valid?

There is no intimacy because he spends all his time alone and in the bed & doesn’t want anything to do with me really unless we’re having sex.

I just don’t get it 😞