Does your partner help in the morning

With the kids? I work from home so im also a sahm. My husband works but even on.the days that he goes in later or when he's off... he won't ever wake up with the baby, change her or anything. Not once during the 13 months has he helped with the morning routine. I guess i just had the expectation that he would eventually but he hasn't and im feeling like the default parent. I get it when he works at 9 am like today but he woke up with the baby and just leaves. Sometimes I'm dead asleep and baby will mess with stuff in the room (side table and baskets). Ill wake up and he will be in the restroom on his phone. I wake up sometimes to her awake and wet (sometimes poopy) but he has never just helped me out. Most times he ignores us and will sleep in or get mad and tell me to get the baby. Is this normal or am i expecting too much? What i expect is now that the baby is one, i would like to sleep in on his days off (maybe 1 or 2 times a week) or at least have help with the baby when i wake up. Even if he works at 1 pm, i just need one day of relief where when i wake up, i can hand the baby to him and wake up slowly or maybe 15-20 minutes later? Im feeling overwhelmed and a little burnt out because we don't have family or a sitter so everything he doesnt do falls on me (chores, pets,watering the garden, homeschool) and sometimes in the mornings, I just need a second, or i want to use the bathroom by myself but whether he's here or not, the baby's needs and wants fall on me. Of course I'm the mom so I understand it comes with the territory (i have a 9 year old as well but she wakes up a little later) but not having anyone to rely on in the mornings reminds me of being a single parent.... it's challenging. Update: he is a manager for a large restaurant but idk, because he pays the majority of the bills, i do think he thinks parenting falls on me for the most part. He even jokes, "i work, and you got the othe shit. Before we had the baby, you would clean and homeschool and garden...." yeah, i had an EIGHT year old and not a baby.