My bf doesn’t want to see me because I made him wear a condom.

I’m not sure if I’m asking for too much or I’m being unreasonable. We have been together for 10 years: since we were both 18. We don’t even live together or even try to get a place together. I’ve mentioned it and said that happen later once I give him a child. I’m old fashioned but I would love to get married then start looking at places and then have kids. But he wants kids now and says it’s time. I’m not financially ready and we don’t even have a place of our own to bring kids in the picture. Where would I stay? My parents house while he commutes to me? We both live with our parents and live 1 hour away.

We see eachother Sundays because it’s both of our days off. I didn’t see him last week.

Our method of birth control is FAM. I track my cycle. It’s been effective so far and when I’m in my fertile phase he wears a condom.

Last month he complained and finally agreed to wear it. That morning we had sex he tried to convince me not to wear one in the middle of us foreplaying. He tried to put it inside and told me “who makes the rules here” I started to cry and told him “please I don’t want to get pregnant right now we aren’t financially ready” he complained and then agreed to wear but said that sex wasn’t enjoyable. He actually tried to open my legs open to let him inside.

Tomorrow I told him we need to get some condoms and he cancelled on me. He said he rather not see me and is fed up with me.

He said I’ll never give him a child and he said the following words: “I don’t want to get married for shit with u. That happens after we have kids. We don’t even travel together all this traveling should happen before marriage”

I’m so confused. He literally just shut off his phone and my texts don’t go through. The last thing he told me he rather not see me if he has to wear a condom. I haven’t seen him for 2 weeks and this sucks to hear. I feel like all he cares about is sex with me not the time spent with me. The worst part is he said he doesn’t want to get married to me bc I don’t get pregnant. He texted me today and he said he’s just mad because I make him wear a condom. I asked him if we could see eachother and he said we won’t bc he hates condoms and that’s not his problem.

Yes I have posted him about before and y’all suggested we talk. We did but he’s going against using condoms again!!!!!!