Separation

I’m honestly thinking of separating from my husband I’m starting to feel like we’ve outgrown each other we don’t sleep in the same bed anymore . I feel we are just there to be there he always talks about how bored he is with life . It’s like we bring no excitement . I do everything I go to work I come home clean cook barley get any sleep cause of the babies I don’t hang with friends na yet I still don’t complain . Or can’t even get. Little help instead I get talked to like. Child . I just don’t know where to start or if I can even do it on my own