My partner came home and brushed me off

I’m a SAHM so I look forward when he comes home from work so I can have some type of adult interaction, but today when he got off work he called me and then mid convo he just hung up on me because he got upset that I said maybe we can go grocery shopping later. Then when he got home I made him food and he said I always “ victimize “ myself because I got sad that he basically yelled at me and brushed me off because he’s tired from work.. how is that me victimizing myself if I have feelings too…