How to explain my husband?

I’ve been on and off depressed/anxious for the past two years. I’m doing enough to take care of myself and symptoms are currently at bay. However, I still feel like my mind is Google and I have 50+ tabs open and I can’t focus on anything. That involves date nights. My husband is always asking what I want to do, which is nice, but that involves thinking, which I can’t. I just want to be told a plan and be there and enjoy. I don’t want to think where I want to eat or what I want to do. I explained this to him and he still doesn’t get it. I’m running out of options. Depressed people have low energy motivation to do things, even the one’s they like. I would like to go to the beach and he suggested that, but the thing is, he only mentions it. I would have to end up packing the backs, snacks, choosing the beach, etc. Which is what I don’t want. I want to be told: we’re going to X beach now, bags and snacks are ready, get dressed.

Am I being unreasonable?