Is this a normal expectation?

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So my kid will be 3 this month.
He's doing his first summer (day) camp. We need this because of work. 
He was potty trained but since school ended he's been having a few accidents at home as well.
Since summer camp started (day camps) the (16yo) mentors were complaining how he's been soiling himself quite often. (about 3 to 4 times a day which is definitely a lot more than what he does at home or what he did at school) 
It's only been 2 days and since I didn't know the details, I assumed it was the change in system/schedule something like that.
However aparantly they were expecting for 3yo's to go to grown up toilets all by themselves. They would lead the group towards the toilet room but aparantly they don't check if they have done anything, or if they didn't fall in for that matter.
My kid's bum is simply too tiny to sit steadily on a grown up seat idk what they were thinking?
APARANTLY only 2 kids have this issue. Does this mean that the other kids are holding their pee for the entire day? Are they going on these toilets successfully? I would think that is unlikely, or is it a normal expectation to have? For a 3yo to successfully go to the grownup toilet with no help, no one wiping their butts etc..?
Aparantly it's a group of 70 kids led by approximately 7 teenage girls (or very young looking young adults with very smug faces)
#I wanted to edit
School where I am starts at 2,5yo. Teachers absolutely help with potty and wiping.
My son will go to the potty by himself and does wipe himself (except with poo, which he would absolutely do, but not all too successfully) , HOWEVER, both at home as in school, he has toilets or potties adjusted to his size. He can not sit up on a grown up toilet without help, does any 3yo? So if we are elsewhere, I have to help him onto the grownup toilet and hold him while he does his business. The camp is targeted to kids between 3 and 5, I can hardly imagine there's only 2 kids having issues with that. When I picked him up from camp there were at least 10 kids his size.

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I wouldn't send my toddler to camp if they weren't 100% potty trained. They aren't allowed to help them in any way. Sounds miserable for everyone if he's having accidents that often. Poor baby :/

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Seems bonkers to expect a three year old to go to an adult toilet with zero help. 
I would fully expect them to help or adjust the age of the summer camp.

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Even in a classroom setting, teachers aren’t allowed to help. It’s a liability just in case. They’re required to be potty trained or are held back in a younger classroom. Even in daycare, if they aren’t potty trained, you pay more than those who are potty trained. 
Aside from that, this is probably not the right program for your child since he isn’t fully potty trained technically. Plus, they don’t have toddler toilets for the children, as well as teenagers running the program instead of adult supervision.

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3 year old should need minimal help of going to a camp run by teenagers. Fully potty trained means being able to go independently including wiping. 
Not all 3 year olds are fully potty trained. Many still need help wiping or are just starting potty training. 
If your kid has accidents and can’t wipe themselves, they aren’t fully potty trained. 
These teenagers aren’t trained or expected to help wipe small children’s butts or hold them steady on a seat. 
Maybe start taking your child to public restrooms and practice.

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My son was at camp last year when he was three. The requirements were he had to be potty trained. They were not licensed to help in any way shape or form. Before camp I called the program director and got the bathroom information of sometimes being a bathroom sometimes a porta potty. So we brought my son a toilet seat that has handles and he could place on the pottys. We practiced a ton of him using public restrooms and at lots of parks before hand with him going alone and using his potty seat. It seemed to help and he was really confident and comfortable.

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I think the camp are expecting too much of a three year old. Can he even get on the seat without help?Is there another camp that is more suitable for him? Or can he take a seat/step with him to help?

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@GlowGPT please help me with this topic!

Is this a normal expectation?

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