For those of you who have gone no contact with your mother….

How did you know it was time? She continues to show me she doesn’t respect my boundaries (this has been happening throughout my whole life), and when I speak up for myself she guilt trips me. She has caused me so much emotional trauma in my life from childhood up until now and I’m just tired of her not listening to what I have to say. Tired of her acting like she is the victim when I talk back. Tired of her thinking she has done nothing wrong to me ever and that I owe her for my existence. It’s just so hard for me to break the cycle when I’m stuck in it.