Sex after a baby

I posted this on another forum as well. But I ended up deleting it because everyone just kept commenting how bad my husband was if he cared. And I just needed to talk to him not this app. I never said HE cared, it’s me who is stressing about it. And isn’t this app for advise? Am I not allowed to ask other females opinions?

I had a baby vaginally a little over 2 years ago. It was a very long and difficult delivery.

My vagina looks and feels completely different now. I'm always insecure that sex don't feel as good for my husband, and I just stress about it the entire time we're having sex. He has never said, that but he lasts longer now. And I don’t feel him as much now as I did pre-baby.

I have tried doing exercises to strengthen pelvis muscles, kegel balls, everything. I have even considered doing a vaginoplasty but I have a history of blood clots and I can only do surgery if it is absolutely necessary and obviously, that isn't.

Do you have any suggestions on how to strengthen things down there, or even tips on how to stop being so self conscious about it?