Feeling let down

I have two kids by two different people and neither relationship worked out. Both were long term 8 years and 3 years and I’m only 26 years old. I love my kiddos so much and I hope to someday find someone to share a life with. After my second break up I took some time to get my career and bought a house and took a completely break from dating for my kids. A few months back I started dating this guy that was older than me and it was a complete mess and I felt he led me on and never wanted to meet my kids and was fine as long as it was just us two so I broke up with him because his goals did not meet my future. I’m very sad because I spent so much time praying and I felt like this was going to be my time after all that grief and hurt and being cheated on while pregnant. Has anyone found your person with kids and when you least expected it? I need positivity this is just so hard..