Accepting what is

Been talking to this guy for some months now. Things have been pretty good. Some of you may have seen my post about him telling me he has no polar disorder. Anyway, don’t wanna make this too long (hopefully lol) but he recently quit a job because it wasn’t what he thought it was. He just signed on to a new job that he doesn’t want either but needs money of course. He has kids and bills like many. . He says he wants to work for himself but don’t have the funds. He was pitching ideas to me. Lately he and I haven’t been talking. He simply told me (today) he’s just trying to figure out what to do and how to do it. Idk what that really means but I assumed it means he just doesn’t want to talk right now because he’s dealing with things and he needs to get himself in order. Which that’s life and I get it but it sucks because I really like him and want to talk but I do understand sometimes it’s not all about us and what we want. Just getting that off my chest.