Could he end up abusive/controlling

1. He assumes I’m angry with him which makes me wonder if he’s projecting onto me

2. He told me since he got me a stuffed animal I should get him one back

3. When we’re having sex he tells me he’ll bring the condom then he doesn’t

4. He’ll demand me to tell him I love him “tell me you love me”

5. When we have sex I ask him to give me oral for at least 5 minutes to get me more wet so he licks me a bit then won’t anymore and keeps asking to stick it in or would even try to without a condom in which I tell him no then make him wear a condom