Should i end this relationship?

For one it's long distance. He's 3hrs away which causes issues.. when I've been having car trouble I have had to use my bd to help bc my Dad and brothers won't. I don't have friends and I need immediate help so I needed my BDs help. ( i font have money like that and hrs were cut at work so im playing catch up)

It bothers My bf. It also bothered my bf when I got 2nd opinions on what was wrong with my car...he said I don't value his opinion or see things from his perspective...

And said he felt like a failure bc he couldn't help me with my car and my BD had to. Before he's said I'm probably better suited for someone closer to me.. compares me to his exes ect....

I really liked him bc hes a good man but I feel he has a lot of emotional baggage( from abuse/trauma) and were just a month in.

Part of me wants to pull out already. Idk what to do. I graduated yesterday but after listening to my bf idk what to do. Its not an easy fix unless he comes down to my state. ((And yes ive been posting previously abt my car issues and who i should allow help me. I now have a bettery for my car. I just need brakes now. I may try to take out a loan to get it done))EDIT: @Momma of 4 and Sarah: THANK YOU! i thought it was weird that he was annoyed i got a 2nd opinion about the car. Im likr i have kids i need my car to be up and running. And comparing me to exs is a no.@ SummerShandy: my brother didnt knowwhat he was doing. When my BD jumped me off my car ran anf i was able to get my battery. I tried everyone else first before going to my BD. Realistically i have 2 small kids and I need my car. Im strapped for cash bc my hours wete cut at work. I neededthe help. Im not portaying him as controlling. Also my bf didnt jump the car he just put a charger on the battery over night that didnt work. How was it a bad decision to simply get help?